As part of my growth process, I was told to compile a list of characteristics of the people I’ve dated. After that, I had to circle things that were repetitive and create a “Wanted Ad”. Lets just say I was extremely embarrased reading it aloud. =/
I will say that it had caused me to look within myself. Apparently, I attract the same kind of people. Sheesh, talk about a wake up call. I pray I get it right soon. My time is limited.
A well dressed, witty, inconsistent and inconsiderate lover. Must be insensitive, selfish and unable to take accountability for any wrong doing on his behalf. Exceptionally great at fabricating stories and incapable of knowing when he has gone too far. Judgmental, and extremely bright but with no concrete plans for the future. Must come from a nice family with great values and upbringing but hold no real responsibilities. Loving personality but often pushes people away because of the lack of self control and inability to know when sarcasm has gone too far. More often than not, plays the victim. No true relationship with God but thinks the opposite. Must always be center of attention or life of the party.
“Let go. Why do you cling to pain? There is nothing you can do about the wrongs of yesterday. It is not yours to judge. Why hold on to the very thing which keeps you from hope and love?
—Leo Buscaglia—”—Er?! My Damn life!